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Alma is a very sweet and melodic name ...!
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Sorry I haven't responded in a while. I was answering some other posts and finishing up the poster stuff. The posters are now officially done and will be ready for your viewing pleasure VERY soon! I'll let you all know when that is.

I will be posting more in just a few minutes.

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World 09:
I have 3 tattoos. They don't really mean anything. They are just really nice designs that I liked when I picked them out.

I was 22 years old when I first shot for Playboy.

Negrossiste:
I have never been to France, unfortunately.

Mbeal:
I do have some candid pics. I plan to post some up....one day....when I get a good enough collection going. Unfortunately, I don't have A LOT of my older candid pics from my vacations because my idiot ex...kept them all. I also do plan on selling some for very cheap as well. I'll let you know more abou that...as that time gets closer.

I have gone camping. I have bathed in the river with a friend. The only thing I can say about camping is....we got drunk...it was muggy...we ate alot....and the river was fun.

Down South:
Those are very good/different questions. When I have children, I plan to definitely give them chores when they are old enough. I will NEVER spank my children. I am VERY MUCH against any kind of spanking. I believe you can become more successful with receiving more respect/discipline from your children by bringing them up with out such threats or punishment. Most people do the spanking route because it's the easiest thing/punishment they can think of....plus they are only acting out their own frustration or anger and taking it out on their own child....which is not good parenting. It's easy to not be a good parent. I want to be the best parent I can possibly be to my children.

Jelly:
The only reason why I say I was a dumb ass for not going with the flow...is because at that time...my idiot ex....was all doped up on Valium and probably would not have woken up anyway. I now I can't stand that guy...so...I guess that's why I say, now.....I should have gone with the flow. Funny, hugh? Thanks for your referals.

MT:
Plaboy was the first magazine I ever shot for BUT a long long time ago....even a couple of years before Playboy I had came out to LA...to do a test photo shoot for a nudie mag....I wont say who...but It wasn't Playboy. Well, now I can THANK GOD that they didn't select me. I wouldn't have gone through with an actual shooting if they would have selected me. Anyway, when I came out to LA...I went to a party and met a bunch of people in the industry there. I was trying to decide if I really wanted to do this testing or not. I was REALLY wanting to shoot for Playboy instead. After talking to everyone there....I decided to go ahead and do the testing since that's what I came out for anyway.....and then I can decide If I want to go further or not. During that trip....I met a photographer who said he can get me in all kinds of magazines....(you know all the raunchy ones). I guess there are LOTS of girls out there desperate to be in magazines. Anyway....he would shoot me and sell my pics to ALL the magazines. Needless to say....I turned him down.

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Boxers!!!

FK:
It wasn't very hard for me to tell my family that I shoot for Playboy because I've always been very open and honest with them about everything. I've never been ashamed about my shooting for Playboy and I've always presented myself to others with respect. For example, I don't wear the typical skimpy Playboy clothing, I don't wear low cut tops, tight clothing, I've never slept around and such. They all took my news well BUT I had to assure them that...the Playboy kind of posing is all I do. I've had to explain myself about why my name comes up under all these other URL's that say you can see Alley sucking cock and all. I tell my Mom the truth about that. I say Mom....my lawyers are heavily involved....which they are. BUT with the person I was with before....I tried to keep my modeling from his parents (mostly Mom) but she was a very nosey horrible horrible person. She found out...and thought I was the worst person in the world. She was from the South and was a goodie "Catholic". UGH...I hated her. I hated her...because she acted as if she was such an angel yet...she was such a horrible person. I wont go into the lengthy details. Anyway....I had a VERY VERY hard time with that whole thing....and her. I find that people here in CA....just don't have that kind of narrow minded outlook on things. I love Californians.

Supermark:
My stories have to be a spontaneous thing. I guess I do have more....but I most of the time wussed out of them.

Wildcard:
I am really weirded out by raw meat. I have to disinfect everything!
I don't like cock roaches, spiders or procastenators.

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AlleyBaggett wrote:
I have to disinfect everything!


Everything? Oh my, that must make spontaneous sex a wee bit of a challenge. Hehehaha!

Wink Razz Smile

Sorry, just couldn't resist a little tease. Me so bad. Twisted Evil

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Hey Guys,

I could just kill myself right now. I had ALL your page 3 questions answered and I was just about to post them but I some how lost them because I was hitting the back and forward arrow button on my brower. AHHHHHHH That is SOOOO irritating.

Well, since it's SO late now.....I'll have to answer all those questions again tomorrow.

I am SO SORRY! I just wasted SO much time. Oh well....when I come back to answer them again...at least I'll know exactly what to type down.

MUCH LOVE! and GOOD NIGHT...

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I HATE that!

We all really appreciate you taking the time to answer all our q's, it's been a lot of work for you so far!!



THANK YOU!


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Hello Alley,...

Your a classy girl! I love you. I can't wait to see some candid shots of you. I have one,..I don't know remember where I got it from but it's of you with a 21st b'day cake? Sorry you didn't win BOL model of the year. I forgot who it was. She's a good lookin babe though. O'h I'm not seeing that gal anymore I think she has another dude. I don't play that.

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Hi Alley..

Heard awhile ago you wanted to get into some more acting.....

how is that coming along ?? you had any offers ?

I have nothing against Jessica Simpson but I reckon you would have been perfect for the role of Daisy Duke in the new Dukes of Hazzard movie.... Cool

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Alley,

It's really fun learning all this stuff about you and I thank you for being so open with us. There is one question I had to the response on spanking you gave. I respect your decision on not spanking, but I would disagree with the generalization that spanking is just parents ",acting out their own frustration or anger and taking it out on their own child." In some cases I agree, in others, not at all. Let me give you an example. I was spanked as a child and yet have never had anyone tell me they hate me. I always have people say i am kind, generous, and one of the nicest guys they have ever met. I have one got into a physical fight twice in my life [once in elementary school and once in 6th grade - both because a kid kept getting in my face as I tried walking away, calling me names because I was (and still am) larger than average.] Now these guys who treated me this way, along with others I did not like because of similar type of treatment to me were never spanked and grounded instead. In my experience, grounding, time-outs, and treating the child as a little adult as opposed to children leads to snobby, stuck-up, rude, mean people more often than not. Now like I said, I respect your decision and you probably had different experiences as a child that gave rise to your current opinion. So, if you could answer this question for me it would be appreciated - is there anyone who was spanked as a child and would you say they have serious behavior and other issues because of it? Again, PLEASE don't be offended by this or think I was offended by your response. I just constantly hear similar arguements against spanking and I have meant only a small number of people in my entire life (less than ten, I would say) that have poor behavior or psychological issues.

Again thanks for responding to my questions.

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Please spank me, Alley. I promise never to tell. Mr. Green

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I forgot all about that question...thanks for responding Alley.

I had chores to do from the 1st grade on until my mid-teens. Starting from 1st grade one of the chores I had to do was wash the dishes everynight after supper. I still wash my dishes by hand to this day. I don't use my dishwasher because it takes too long, it's too loud, and it uses too much water.

I got a few whippings via a belt or switches while I was growing up. Timeout and all this new age stuff didn't exist when I was a kid. Even if it did, it wouldn't have flown in my household. My step-sister does the timeout/bribes thing and her child is wild as hell. I'm learning by watching her with her child so when I have mine I know what works and what doesn't. Looking back on my whippings (maybe 4 to 5), they don't bother me because they came from a loving hand and I also knew I done wrong. My parents let me know at a very young age that if I did something wrong I was going to get a whipping. It only took a few times for me to learn what not to do and that my parents didn't mess around with discipline. I love my parents that much more now for instilling responsibilty and discipline in me as a child. Growing up though, I didn't think it was too cool. At the time I just didn't understand...

Would I whip my children? If I had a daughter...no way...but a boy would be a little different. I wouldn't belt whip him, but I could see a switch coming into play. He'd have to do something really wrong though...and the wife factor...she might not believe in whipping children...so how we would disicpline our children would have to be compromised I guess.

A Catholic Southerner...talk about your needle in a haystack...I only know one myself.

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someoneoutthere wrote:

Hey Wildcard. Missed you a bit on the other forums. I thought you took a vacation or something. Good to see ya.

And gents. Too many questions here for Alley! Be patient. Be gentle on your girl! And that it is damn decend of Alley to talk so openly and honestly. Been missing that in some forum...(not gonna name names) That's all I really want to say though.


Thanks Someoneoutthere, for being so cute. Don't worry though...it's all good.
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Wildcard wrote:
I have been posting fairly regularly in Alley's forum, and soon will have a surprise for her. She's been so great with opening up to us, and wanting to show us a side of her that's just Alley Baggett the person, not Alley Baggett the famed Playboy model. For me that's something which is really nice to see, after having become familiar with Alley many years back now. In a way it's kind of like she's a long time friend, even though I have never actually met her. It's terrific being able to chat with her here though, and I'm sure Alley would love it if you came around more often.


Wildcard you're so cute. Smile

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jelly wrote:
Alley, here's a Q for you:

Are you sorry you started this thread because you have to be in front of the computer 24 hours a day to answer all our questions because we are all mad about you??

lol only kidding around! Laughing


No I'm not sorry. It's been fun so far. I haven't been on my message board in the past 3 days or so (except for yesterday) which makes everything get a little backed up on me. It's okay though. I usually like to spend a few hours at one time to answer lots of questions...that is if my work has been done. Working with the posters have taken up SO much of my time....and now I'm just glad they are DONE!!! The poster guys are VERY happy with the images....and how they turned out. I can't wait for you all to see them too! Wink

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mikek wrote:
Hi Alley, 2 questions:

1. Any plans on coming to the UK for events/signings etc? I guarantee at least one fan/stalker Wink

2. You mentioned getting your body fat down, you look great as always, but any chance on adding back a few pounds? I think you'd look even better (if that's possible).

All the best

Mike

Hi Mike,
I don't have any plans on going to the UK. Unfortunately, I haven't wanted to do any traveling outside of the US ever since the 9/11 attacks. I'm sure I'll change my mind one day. These are some very crazy times.

I'm okay with gaining a few extra pounds....so long as it's not fat.

Very Happy

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Danie wrote:
Alley, does your man ever come down on you about your job? And if he does, how do you react? How does he deal with the fact that your naked body is shown to so many people? Does he get jealous?

I am just wondering, because I don't know how I could deal with that. I mean isn't it weird that all his friends have probably seen you naked?

Sorry if this is too personal, then just ignore it.

Thanks for everything

Danie



HI Sweet Danie,
To be completely honest with you....my man is VERY secure in our relationship. I show him that he should be....every day...and I know he is. Also, my man is the jealous type but not overly jealous. He's not jealous about my work....however. When he met me....he knew what I did....and he's accepted that. To truely love someone....and to be in a commited spiritual relationship....you have to love that person unconditionally. About his friends.... My man does not have the kind of friends that would sit there checking my photos out...and ooohhhhing and aaahhhhing over them. They are all very respectful towards me and my relationship to my man. I'm also not your typical "airhead" Playboy model chick. I don't wear skimmpy clothes, wear low cut tops, tight clothes and such when I'm not shooting. I think that helps to remind his friends of who I REALLY am. I hope I answered your questions okay.??

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troyholc wrote:
Alley,

This is a very interesting set of posts. I have an interesting question for you:

Discovery Channel is doing a show about the Greatest Americans as voted on by ordinary people. Besides yourself, who are a couple of of people you would consider amoung the Greatest Americans?

I personally woould have my list start off like this:

1. Abraham Lincoln
2. Thomas Jefferson
3. Thomas Edison
4. Alley Baggett Very Happy
5. Theadore Roosevelt

Many on the Discovery channel list are people like Madonna (who has basically renounced her US Citizenship). There are only 2 scientist on the list. Only a handful of all the people were around more than about 40 years ago.

I am serious about you on the list. You bring joy to so many people and seem to be so open and honest.

troyholc


You're so cute.

1. Thomas Edison
2. Oprah Winfrey (I LOVE HER!!!!)

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mark247 wrote:
hi alley i no i probably shouldn't ask this but it buggin me 1-how old r u
2-how tall r u
3-when is the next chat session
4-have u been to england


I am 31
I am 5'2"

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williebri wrote:
Guys, dont you think you are kinda slammin Alley with alot of questions (not to mention kinda pesonal) at one time. She deserves more respect than that.


Williebri, It's okay honey. Don't worry. I got it all under control. Thanks though!

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williebri wrote:
Guys, dont you think you are kinda slammin Alley with alot of questions (not to mention kinda pesonal) at one time. She deserves more respect than that.


Williebri, It's okay honey. Don't worry. I got it all under control. Thanks though!

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Danie wrote:
williebri wrote:
Guys, dont you think you are kinda slammin Alley with alot of questions (not to mention kinda pesonal) at one time. She deserves more respect than that.


Guy, come on, 90% of the people asking questions on this in this topic are Alley's biggest fans. Do you think we don't know what would offend Alley? Even the borderline stuff gets prefaced with an "I hope this doesn't offend you" or "I am sorry if this is too personal". The topic itself asks to ask questions to really get to know her. Alley is not shy, she will let us know if we cross the line. She will answer the questions she likes and thinks will be most insightful. By asking so many quesions we are just giving her some variety and options. Anyway, I don't think it is too many questions, there must be tens of thousands of Alley fans and like thirty questions in the past two weeks and probably twenty-five of them are one word answers.

I am not saying that I personally don't find some of the questioning unreasonable, but Alley seems to take it in stride. And Willie, the Alley nation knows maybe more than Alley what she deserves, to be queen of the the world. She is our queen, and I promise you we would not intentionally do anything to hurt or upset her. She has our respect and our love. It may be different than what your used to, but, that is the Alley Nation.

no harm no foul

Danie


Danie, You are SOOOO freakin' cute!!!! Very Happy

Danie is right about what he's said. Thanks Danie...for speakin up.

LOVE YOU LOTS

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LosihoTTT wrote:
Alley, I don't have a personal question, and the one I'm about to ask may be ridiculously obvious and make me look stupid, but I'll ask anyway....

Is "Alley" short for "Allison" ?


No It's not.

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Supermark wrote:
In Girls of Hooters (1994), Alley is credited as Alma Baggett.


Supermark that was a mistake on their behalf. It was a LONG time ago. I shot that even before I ever shot for the magazine. So It doesn't bother me.

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jelly wrote:
Alley mightn't be her real name at all, maybe just a stage name?

Or even more disturbingly, how can we be REALLY sure it IS her on the forums?? Maybe she hired some dodgy guy wearing nothing but a trenchcoat to pretend to be her online? Laughing


It's really me!! I PROMISE!!!! I wouldn't do that to you guys.

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orange wrote:
Alma is a very sweet and melodic name ...!


Thanks Orange but that's not my real name. When I filled out my paperwork for the video...I was getting my hair done.....and in the middle of getting my locks pulled on I wrote my name and it came out kind of weird looking. I asked if the woman who was in charge of my papers could fix them...but I guess she forgot to??

It' not a big deal though.

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tommi wrote:
Hi Alley..

Heard awhile ago you wanted to get into some more acting.....

how is that coming along ?? you had any offers ?

I have nothing against Jessica Simpson but I reckon you would have been perfect for the role of Daisy Duke in the new Dukes of Hazzard movie.... Cool


Thanks Tommi!

I'm not really interested in acting anymore. I haven't been for a couple of years now. I lost interest when I was going to acting school. I learned that I didn't have a passion for it. If you don't have a passion for something....then it will show....that you SUCK at whatever it is you are doing. I'm one that will not continue to do something if I think I suck at it.

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troyholc wrote:
Alley,

It's really fun learning all this stuff about you and I thank you for being so open with us. There is one question I had to the response on spanking you gave. I respect your decision on not spanking, but I would disagree with the generalization that spanking is just parents ",acting out their own frustration or anger and taking it out on their own child." In some cases I agree, in others, not at all. Let me give you an example. I was spanked as a child and yet have never had anyone tell me they hate me. I always have people say i am kind, generous, and one of the nicest guys they have ever met. I have one got into a physical fight twice in my life [once in elementary school and once in 6th grade - both because a kid kept getting in my face as I tried walking away, calling me names because I was (and still am) larger than average.] Now these guys who treated me this way, along with others I did not like because of similar type of treatment to me were never spanked and grounded instead. In my experience, grounding, time-outs, and treating the child as a little adult as opposed to children leads to snobby, stuck-up, rude, mean people more often than not. Now like I said, I respect your decision and you probably had different experiences as a child that gave rise to your current opinion. So, if you could answer this question for me it would be appreciated - is there anyone who was spanked as a child and would you say they have serious behavior and other issues because of it? Again, PLEASE don't be offended by this or think I was offended by your response. I just constantly hear similar arguements against spanking and I have meant only a small number of people in my entire life (less than ten, I would say) that have poor behavior or psychological issues.

Again thanks for responding to my questions.

troyholc


Troyholc, It's not so much....how these spanked children turn out to be later in life. It's more about....what you are putting your child through at the time of spanking. They learn to fear the parents. Kids immatate their partents and more than likely will start hitting others when alone...or act out in aggressive behavior. I read A LOT and see A LOT about these issues. At one point I had thought about working as an elementery school teacher. Alot of times too...spanking can get out of hand unintentionally....and could be considered as abuse...if looked at from a third party. Is this what you would really want for your kids? I believe those kids that you spoke of.....probably had OTHER family issues....that you are unaware of....which is why they were the way they were. Alot of kids who wore born before the 80's were probably spanked.....and just because some of those kids probably turned out to be good people....doesn't mean it was the best way to discipline them....and you should do it too, to your own kids. Growing up....I'm sure they had a VERY hard time dealing with certain issues. I AM VERY MUCH AGAINST spanking and I ALWAYS will be.

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Down South wrote:
I forgot all about that question...thanks for responding Alley.

I had chores to do from the 1st grade on until my mid-teens. Starting from 1st grade one of the chores I had to do was wash the dishes everynight after supper. I still wash my dishes by hand to this day. I don't use my dishwasher because it takes too long, it's too loud, and it uses too much water.

I got a few whippings via a belt or switches while I was growing up. Timeout and all this new age stuff didn't exist when I was a kid. Even if it did, it wouldn't have flown in my household. My step-sister does the timeout/bribes thing and her child is wild as hell. I'm learning by watching her with her child so when I have mine I know what works and what doesn't. Looking back on my whippings (maybe 4 to 5), they don't bother me because they came from a loving hand and I also knew I done wrong. My parents let me know at a very young age that if I did something wrong I was going to get a whipping. It only took a few times for me to learn what not to do and that my parents didn't mess around with discipline. I love my parents that much more now for instilling responsibilty and discipline in me as a child. Growing up though, I didn't think it was too cool. At the time I just didn't understand...

Would I whip my children? If I had a daughter...no way...but a boy would be a little different. I wouldn't belt whip him, but I could see a switch coming into play. He'd have to do something really wrong though...and the wife factor...she might not believe in whipping children...so how we would disicpline our children would have to be compromised I guess.

A Catholic Southerner...talk about your needle in a haystack...I only know one myself.


With all due respect....is your step sister a single Mom? Is the Father there for him? To what extent? I guarentee you the boy..is acting out...on some other issue that's going on.
Also there might be some other things your step sister is doing wrong with her discipling. For example....not following through with threats. Bribing isn't usually a good thing to do, unless it's done not very often....and etc.

Would you whip your children...if you were with someone else who was against it? I say if your woman felt sooooo strongly about it....then make a deal with her. Tell her to find out all there is to know how to discipline your child the right way...and if her method works....then there's no need to do anything else. Of course, she would have to school you on what she's learned as well.

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how can we be REALLY sure it IS her on the forums?? Maybe she hired some dodgy guy wearing nothing but a trenchcoat to pretend to be her online? Laughing


It's really me!! I PROMISE!!!! I wouldn't do that to you guys.


Whatever you say Jimbo the trenchcoat guy!!

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AlleyBaggett wrote:
Plaboy was the first magazine I ever shot for BUT a long long time ago....even a couple of years before Playboy I had came out to LA...to do a test photo shoot for a nudie mag....[...]During that trip....I met a photographer who said he can get me in all kinds of magazines....(you know all the raunchy ones). I guess there are LOTS of girls out there desperate to be in magazines. Anyway....he would shoot me and sell my pics to ALL the magazines. Needless to say....I turned him down.


Seems that Ally has a little lucky star! !... fortunately, you took good decision! Very Happy

About the question of education, I respect your opinions but I'm not for physical punition for children. There's so many way to make them understand what's good or not without using the whip! Confused Now in Belgium, at school, it's forbidden to hit or make a physical punition to a pupil and the justice doesn't hesitate to sanction in case of a child with mark of bad treatments! The frontier between bad treatments and punition with belt, whip is sometimes very ... tenuous! Now, the psychologic aspect (finally it's a new science) is taking in consideration.
As for me, I was not a quiet child Laughing and I received some belt punition from my parents! Confused I love my parents (I know they just followed the existant diagram of education-punition) but I've always swear that I won't do the same!
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